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SF-Based Professional Dominatrix


Sinister, Coercive, Seductively Sadistic.

In its most thoughtful application, BDSM can heal and transform.  I am invested in creating meaningful experiences that are physically dynamic, psychically challenging and driven by authentic energy exchange.


I am sinister in a most unapologetically saccharine sort of way.  I have a menacing sadistic streak and derive immense pleasure from engineering complex compositions of psychodrama, delivering anticipation, longing and suffering with diamond-cutting precision.  

I shift from cerebral and cruel to playful and mischievous in a mercurial moment. Exacting and strict, the next.  You are at my whim.  You are at my mercy.  I love nothing more than watching you crumble under my ministrations of pain, tease and torture.  I will break you and mold you into the submissive of my making. 


Your suffering is my delight.  Your surrender is absolute.



Mistress Ava Noir

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I am selective with my time and who I bestow it to.  All dungeon engagements are for two hours in length.  Dedicated clients may make requests for longer engagements.  


La Maison de Maitresse is my playground, an exquisitely equipped dungeon in the heart of San Francisco. If properly vetted, I love sessions at luxe hotels.  The Clift, The Battery, The Line and Proper Hotel boast some of my favorite suites and would be sure to bring a delight to my day.  


Dinner, Shopping or a Social affair. For those wanting to deepen our connection, and regale me, I welcome any of these types of excursions.  Make a humble request for my running list of restaurants, shows or boutiques I love. 



FMTY.  First Class or Business Class, Four Star accommodations and a non-refundable deposit of 50% required.  

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I adore a slave who gets to know my every taste, whim and delight.  It’s an intimate knowing of me that wins you more favor as a most special of pets.


Tributes can be sent via CashApp: $TributeAvaNoir


Gift Cards for any of the following will bring a sparkle to my day:

Vex, William Wilde, Diptyque, Aesop, Honey Birdette, Red Mint Spa 

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Upcoming Tour Dates:

NY 5/8-5/10

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“Suffering is permanent, obscure and dark, and shares the nature of infinity.”  William Wordsworth

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